You said the word “no” for the first time today.

You turned down one more sip of milk. A sentiment

you shared without words before in so many wordless ways—

sharp cries, fluttering lip sighs, and flailing movements of dismay.

I looked at your mother when you told her,

and we both celebrated your voice, and I know

we both hid our mixed feelings through our happy displays. 

Commencements are like that—one journey has ended,

another awaits, and those who have loved you the longest

will miss what you may not remember. 

Today, you said the word “no” for the first time.

A new word we hope to teach you

how to ignore and how to obey.

Though it may take until tomorrow,

we will listen to what you say next. 

Will it be “yes?” Only you can say.